Why women like and dislike anal sex

I've always been the guy who wasn't shy about experimenting in bed, and over the years of my turbulent personal life, I've accumulated quite a few stories with girls. One of the most intriguing topics became anal sex – that forbidden territory, which sometimes beckoned like forbidden fruit, and other times scared off like a wild beast. I didn't just take what was given – I asked, dug deeper, trying to understand why some girls loved it, while for others it was a complete nightmare. And believe me, the answers from the girls themselves were far more revealing than any porn film.

The first one I discussed it with seriously was Anna – a slender brunette with a firm ass that drove me crazy just by looking at it.

We met at a bar, got drunk on martinis, and an hour later we were fucking in her apartment. I carefully hinted at anal, and her eyes lit up. "Go ahead," she whispered, getting on all fours on the carpet. "I love it when you fill me up completely there, feel how my ass tightens around your cock, as if it wants to milk out every last drop." We lubed up with whatever was at hand – her saliva and my gel worked great. She moaned, writhing, as I entered slowly, inch by inch, feeling that burning tightness that drives you insane. "It hurts at first, but then – an orgasm so intense that my pussy just flows," she confessed later, lying in my arms, her fingers lazily stroking my balls. For Anna, anal was about power – she loved feeling like a whore being fucked without mercy, and that dirty thought turned her on to the point of trembling.

But with Marina, it was different. This red-haired beauty with voluptuous curves seemed perfect for experiments – her ass was like a ripe peach, but as soon as I brought up the topic, she squeezed her eyes shut. "No, honey, not there," she cut me off when we were already naked in bed. We caressed each other for hours: I licked her wet slit, she sucked my cock, deep-throating it, but anal? "It's painful, dirty, humiliating," she said, blushing. Once I convinced her to try – just the tip, with a ton of lube. She tensed up like a string and pushed me away after a minute: "See? It's not for me. I love it when you pound my pussy, feel my walls, how they pulse." Marina saw something animalistic, primal in anal, which frightened her. "I'm not a porn star," she whispered, "I need tenderness, not this rough fucking in the ass."

With Lera, everything went sideways. This petite blonde with a tattoo on her buttocks refused point-blank, even when we were in the heat of the moment: her mouth was wrapped around my cock, she was riding me on top, but anal? "Never. It's disgusting, and I'm afraid of tearing myself," she hissed if I hinted. Once, after some wine, she allowed a finger – and cried from the pain. "See? Not for me. I love it when you lick my ass from the outside, but inside – no." Lera saw it as a threat – physical and emotional, preferring clean, wet vaginal sex.

Summing up my "research," I understood: girls like anal for the tightness, for the feeling of the forbidden, for the orgasms that hit the brain like lightning. And they don't like it – because of the pain, shame, fear of infections, or simply because it's not their fantasy. Every ass has its own story, and listening to their confessions was no less exciting than the act itself.